Down but not out.
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On May 9th, 2023, Josh's life underwent a profound transformation as an aortic dissection triggered a massive stroke. Since then, his journey back has evolved into a series of moments, and we will share some of his stories here. It's important to note that Josh's services have also transformed, adapting to the changes brought about by his experiences. This narrative seeks to capture and share the unfolding chapters of Josh's story as he navigates the challenges of healing and rebuilding, offering a glimpse into how his services have taken on a different form compared to
The Beginning - May 9th
On May 9th, Josh found himself in a critical situation when he suffered a sudden aortic dissection. This medical condition is caused by a tear in the inner layer of the aorta, which is the largest artery in the body. The tear extended to his carotid artery, creating a life-threatening situation. Despite being a silent attacker, the dissection should have snuffed out Josh's life.
In the middle of an engaging virtual Zoom presentation, while Josh was alone at home, something unexpected happened that startled everyone on the Zoom call. Josh's voice trembled as he said, "I think I need to call 911," creating a tense silence in the virtual room. The gravity of the situation was clear, and the uncertainty of what would happen next hung in the air. In a twist of fate, a mysterious call to 911 echoed through the digital channels, lasting four crucial minutes. The surreal nature of this lifeline left everyone bewildered and speechless, as Josh himself had no recollection of the call. It was a perplexing enigma that defied explanation, even for the medical experts. The improbable heroism displayed by Josh in that critical moment left everyone in awe.
In a race against time, an ambulance swiftly transported Josh to St. Mary's Hospital. The medical team at the hospital worked tirelessly for hours, diligently trying to comprehend Josh's condition. Their mission was to unravel the mystery behind his ailment, unaware that his carotid artery was causing a severe stroke by restricting vital blood flow to his brain. This silent enemy waged war without any apparent external signs.
Josh was taken by ambulance to St. Mary’s Hospital, where they ran a gamut of tests trying to figure out what was going on. They didn’t know his carotid artery was not providing blood to the right side of his brain. He was having a massive stroke.
After diagnosing the issue, Josh was flown to the University of Michigan and quickly taken into surgery. This procedure was highly risky, with a low survival rate. Although the University of Michigan performs this surgery more frequently than any other hospital in the country, it's rare because only 1% of these patients reach the operating room or even make it to the hospital alive – marking miracle number 2. Josh successfully underwent an intense 8-hour emergency open-heart surgery, which became miracle number 3 as he survived against the odds.
Following the aortic and carotid dissections, along with a significant stroke, Josh found himself in a challenging state but managed to stay alive. The lack of blood flow to the right side of his brain, lasting several hours, led to paralysis on the left side of his body. In the initial days, he gradually regained consciousness as his brain dealt with swelling. Despite the difficulty in understanding, Josh could communicate somewhat – a testament to his resilience.
In the first week, Josh diligently worked to reactivate his brain. While he understood the situation and knew what steps to take, the outcome remained uncertain. In Josh's own words, "I wasn't staying down. I wasn't going out like that. I didn't hear no bell." (Josh, a lifelong Rocky fan) Even when the chaplain offered support, suggesting he could vent frustration at God, Josh declined, expressing gratitude for everything God had done for him. He also acknowledged the power of modern medicine and was thankful for the incredible doctors who had played a pivotal
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another close call
Despite the overall progress, setbacks occurred. On May 17th, there was a frightening moment when his blood pressure dropped dramatically, causing uncertainty and nearly ending Josh’s life. The sight of ten medical staff members rushing into the room in a light jog added to the anxiety, but Josh successfully navigated the situation. Then, on the following day, he achieved a significant milestone by moving all five toes on his left foot. Maintaining this positive trajectory is crucial for his ongoing recovery.
p stacking positive days. We know he will!
That’s a brief on everything medically until now. For us, his family, this has been the most difficult period of our lives. Josh is a rock for our entire family. He is the guy you call when you’re having a bad day or making a major life decision. We are used to Josh wrestling on the floor with his boys and talking to us for hours. No one ever wants to see the fear in a child’s eyes when they walk in and see their dad nearly unable to speak and move. The doctors say seeing his family is good for him, so we are circling the wagons, but it doesn’t make it any less heartbreaking. We are choosing to look at all of the progress he has made. We are thankful he can understand us and follow along. Right now, on Thursday evening, he is fighting off an aggressive staph infection (MRSA), so that has been tough, but we are clawing back from that too. Hour by hour, we are taking it one day at a time.
- Josh’s Family
The Walkout - July
AAfter spending more than 30 days in the ICU, Josh transitioned to a rehabilitation facility. Upon arrival, the medical team held hope for his eventual recovery and restoration of functionality. Despite his initial inability to sit up, relying on a hoyer lift for movement, Josh was determined from the outset – his goal was unequivocal: to walk out of the facility.
Following an arduous month of strenuous workouts and enduring lengthy evenings confined to a hospital bed, Josh persistently accumulated small victories. There was the pivotal moment when the assistance of a Hoyer Lift became unnecessary, the day he could lift his left leg, and the occasion he took his first steps. Each day brought its share of pain and demoralization, yet the collective effort to persevere persisted. Breakthroughs, however small, were steadily amassed until the remarkable day arrived – he walked out.
The Stands - August
When everything was taken from Josh, the smallest pleasures became the most sought. His longing centered around a seemingly modest wish – to watch his boys' football game from the stands. Football Saturdays held a sacred status in their household, and the absence of the crisp Fall air and the chill of cold metal seats became a poignant void.
During his ICU stay, where movement on his left side was an impossibility, Josh expressed to his family his determination to witness his boys playing football from the stands. At that juncture, the goal appeared to be an unrealistic aspiration. Nonetheless, this seemingly insignificant moment was significant, marking another substantial achievement in Josh's journey. The accumulation of such moments persisted, a testament to the ongoing progress in
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